To take one gift from God's hand means leaving other gifts behind.

The question is: Who knows best how to fulfill our sexual desires?

I'm betting God knows best. After all, sex was His idea!

Just like the guy who designs the computer program gets to set the parameters, God sets the parameters for sex within marriage. Sound cruel? Is it cruel to warn you not to put sand in your car's gas tank? Of course not! Sand would ruin the engine.