Don't ignore the direct evidence:
          Charge card bills from companies with strange names
          Phone bills with unfamiliar or 900-numbers
          Pornographic magazines
          A large number of sex related 'spam' e-mails (more than a couple per month)
          ... and so on.

The spouse may be the last one to accept this evidence. A part of them doesn't want the pain of accepting the truth. The spouse may even become involved in elaborate explanations of why it can't be true. You have heard it said that, "The family is often the last one to know." They aren't the last to know, but they may be the last to accept the facts.

If you suspect that someone is a sexual addict, there are definitely things that can be done. Start by talking to your pastor, and seek professional help.

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